Some women can be cruel

When a man loves, a woman takes advantage of it. Somehow his tongue becomes smoother, his demeanour becomes cuter and his ATM becomes easier looser. It doesn’t really matter if the fellow is as hot as a mug of coffee at 7:00 AM on a Monday morning- if she don’t love you, well.....

Some women can be cruel. For all I know it could be part of their DNA, I mean ask Adam- Eve is the reason he was kicked out of Eden and had to dig the hard earth for a living under the scorching fiery sun. Flash forward some thousand years later, picture a man working his a$$ off to wine, dine, adorn a woman with jewellery e.t.c all to impress but what does he get in return? Might as well uliza kiatu, ask his shoe. Thank God for women like Deborah and Hadassa who change that bad first impression.

A certain man called a local radio station and said, “My wife is an angel sent from above-she was dropped from heaven and sent to me.” Cute huh? I’m sure y’all ladies went aaaaaw and would give just about anything to hear your guy/hubby say that. So he went on to say and I quote or paraphrase rather, “her name is LUCIFER, she was rejected in heaven how” he went on to say how unfortunate he was to be the one punished with her. “She is the devil I tell you!”

How do I ( a self proclaimed feminist) contend with that? So what are his reasons for such an utterance, you may ask. Turns out the nigga has been forfeiting his ‘duties’ but it’s not his fault, as much he claimed. He rises earlier even before the sun and toils hours on end so that can be able to provide for the family so by night time the guy is simply exhausted and just wants to sleep, so in return the wifey gets her ‘rights’ somewhere else where the other man is not  as exhausted and just wants to sleep, that comes well eer afterwards.

Is this situation redeemable?

My defense is, some women are not cruel-raise your hand if you agree...eeeer okay thank you for those 2/2,000,000 hands. Let’s try this again, neither relationships nor love is complicated. The trick is, you gotta understand what love is, it ain’t a fluttery feeling that’s for sure, it’s commitment and discipline, if you take time and learn about God then you will truly understand love cuz afterall, God IS love. if you get this, then you will be started on a successful journey of being in love and enjoying it